‘The lost City of Z’- we all get a lost city at our heart

-”There are places that never leave us.”

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Guys, being nice to you doesn’t mean I am going to bite you

Recently I notice a guy who I have been in a rapport with suddenly become distant on me. He is a nice person, we talked a lot when we met and we also trusted each other at some point. He has a girlfriend and on the other hand, I have no romantic interest in him. I appreciate him as a decent guy, so when we have contacts, I always respond as soon as I could, when he asked me for help, I tried my best to help. I also sent him birthday card and sent him sweet words once in a while.

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Not replying message is NOT okay

Since when we justified ourselves when we ignore a message?

For the record I am someone who always reply messages and reply as soon as I read it. Not because I am super available and holding my cell phone or checking my laptop every ten minutes. But it is something happens so naturally I don’t even have a reason not to answer.

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How to get over a crush and rejection

This is one of the biggest cliché topics in relationship. Yet for such a long time, we never have an definite answer for it. I have been there for a few times, wished I could find a pill to take then I can erase the memory with this person. Rather to think of something unrealistic, I realized there are some paths that I can take to go over someone who doesn’t like me back. Here are ten paths I found from the last experiences and hope it will put some insights to a girl or a guy who is going through a crush situation.

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‘Frantz’- I forgive you and I leave with dignity

“it WAS maybe the direction because under the lies there is always a part of truth.”

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French director Francois Ozon’s ‘Frantz’ tells a story of a german girl Anna, whose fiance Frantz was killed during first world war.  One day on her path to Frantz’s grave, she saw an unknown French young man Adrien was bringing flowers and weeping in front of his grave. This French man claimed he was a friend of Frantz, it turned out it was him who accidently killed Frantz during the war, he came here out of guilt and is looking for forgiveness.

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I confessed to my crush, and will always do so

Few weeks ago, I ‘suddenly’ confessed to my crush, who I have feeling for almost two years. It was not planned, even though I did think about multiple times that I needed to confess to him, I mean, how bad it can be? He is only my co-worker, someone I see almost every day. But I needed to get him out of my system, this will not be the first time I confess to a guy, but I still chickened out. I looked for ‘supports’ from all sources I could find, the answers I received were mostly:

“no, girls should never confess to a guy, if he likes you, he will come to you.”

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