Life is not about completing

There was an idea in my whole life:

once I finished my study, then I would complete learning; once I found my dream job, then I would be settled; once I found a partner, then I would love him forever; once I went to Germany, I would realize my life time dream..

If I had learned something this year, I learned that, life is always changing, we are always changing, there is no such term as completion. Whatever happened to us every day, whoever we met in our life in a daily basis, make us change to a person who we probably didn’t expect us to be.

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One thing I learned from people that I liked

Every time when I feel a relationship is going to break apart, when someone I like is fading away from my life, it feels like I am trapped in a box, cannot breathe, cannot run away and cannot see anything.

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Where is Wally?

In the film ‘Medianeras’, Mariana has a children’s book named ‘Donde esta wally’. Wally is a boy wearing glass and red/white stripe long sleeve shirt, he is everywhere, at coffee shop, train station, beach, he is walking with his dog, carrying a bag, buying stuff… but he is hiding in the crowd, all you need to do is finding him.

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‘Logan’- the worst and best wolverine

I am not a wolverine fan, I am not a X-men fan, I am not even a superhero fan. But you don’t need to any of this to fall in love with this film.捕获.JPG

We are living in a time where superhero is a must at cinema, we have so many superheroes now that we reboot them every five years and we squeeze the profit out of it like we are making an apple juice. For a time, I thought maybe the reason why superheroes pop up in a loop is because there is an emptiness at our heart that there are no figures, real people in real life to fight for our belief, our future, to overcome our fear to disasters, to crime and to set the path to freedom and peace. We fancy superheroes because they are never going to die, they always won and gave us hope.

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Guys, being nice to you doesn’t mean I am going to bite you

Recently I notice a guy who I have been in a rapport with suddenly become distant on me. He is a nice person, we talked a lot when we met and we also trusted each other at some point. He has a girlfriend and on the other hand, I have no romantic interest in him. I appreciate him as a decent guy, so when we have contacts, I always respond as soon as I could, when he asked me for help, I tried my best to help. I also sent him birthday card and sent him sweet words once in a while.

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