Few weeks ago a guy who I met for three months said goodbye to me in the middle of an argument. I was ”silly” enough to develop a feeling towards him in such a short time and we didn’t even meet. I heard many people saying, just let him go and go on with your life. I couldn’t, how could I? My head was full of confusion, disappointment and anger. I texted him again and again and again for an answer, yeah, that’s me. But I deserved an answer from him, as everyone deserves a reason if they were left out like this.
Eventually he replied me and said something that I would never forget in my entire life:
I don’t know why you have made this so difficult.
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Every time when I feel a relationship is going to break apart, when someone I like is fading away from my life, it feels like I am trapped in a box, cannot breathe, cannot run away and cannot see anything.
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This is one of the biggest cliché topics in relationship. Yet for such a long time, we never have an definite answer for it. I have been there for a few times, wished I could find a pill to take then I can erase the memory with this person. Rather to think of something unrealistic, I realized there are some paths that I can take to go over someone who doesn’t like me back. Here are ten paths I found from the last experiences and hope it will put some insights to a girl or a guy who is going through a crush situation.
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Few weeks ago, I ‘suddenly’ confessed to my crush, who I have feeling for almost two years. It was not planned, even though I did think about multiple times that I needed to confess to him, I mean, how bad it can be? He is only my co-worker, someone I see almost every day. But I needed to get him out of my system, this will not be the first time I confess to a guy, but I still chickened out. I looked for ‘supports’ from all sources I could find, the answers I received were mostly:
“no, girls should never confess to a guy, if he likes you, he will come to you.”
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